This whole “culture of deceit” thing at debito.org is really appalling.
Here is Debito’s editorial.
Here are some responses in the Japan Times, mine is one of them.
I made many comments on Debito’s blog about this. I went so far as to explain that if one really felt systematic lying was prevalent in Japan, here is how you should approach the issue — but the response was — that’s relativistic — it’s a culture of deceit, period, it doesn’t need to be understood, it’s just wrong. (Debito did say the editor of the paper chose the headline, “culture of deceit,” but the phrase is from the editorial itself. It is the argument that is being made. Please read the editorial and decide about this yourself.)
For the record, my own personal experience with individuals in Japan is that most people are honest. Often people can be a bit more formal or shy or perhaps a little harder to get to know — people might at times react a little too fast to put you at ease … maybe. I don’t know. I’ve lived in Japan 17 years, I don’t find the issue of honesty any more of a problem here than it is anywhere else I’ve been.
If you go to Debito’s blog and look at the comments to the editorial I’m talking about, it’s just breathtaking. Peopling chiming in talking about the problem of lying in Japan — and how they couldn’t live in Japan because the rampant dishonesty was too much to bear.
People who see Japan this way are transfixed on an image, not a reality. They’ve ceased to see individual people — or else how could they say such mean and really ridiculous things? Perhaps the problem is some people in Japan do at times say the same things about themselves. I’m sure it wouldn’t be hard to find a book in Japan claiming Japanese are liars — it’s part of a broader ideology that seeks to pigeonhole individuals into seeing themselves as part of one homogenous identity. It’s the myth of Japanese uniqueness played out in full. I completely reject this. I want no part in it.
This is rubbish.
It just like this visual illusion:

You stare at the hat and you’re utterly sure the length is longer than the width, it’s not. Similarly, if you walk around with the idea in your head that Japanese are all liars, then proof of this will come out of the wood work, you’ll see lies everywhere — but guess what — it just ain’t true. Each person in Japan is an individual, just like you. And you know what else, most people in Japan actually are pretty honest — at least that’s my experience.
[I'm turning off comments, I just don't want to have to debate claims like this on my blog. You can go to debito.org or even tepido.org and comment there. Because in the past -- to so many friends -- I've expressed so much support for Debito's blog, I want it clear I do not in anyway support this idea of Japan being a "culture of deceit." If you wish to discuss my views elsewhere -- you have my permission to copy this entire post. You can also send me a message here: "matt at anarchyjapan.com"]